Slimymed and knowing what I know now cuz we switched roles I I almost sudden guy got married and then I started getting the weight as she's losing it so here's a quick picture of my a wedding picture from mom and I a before photo but I was a lot bigger even at when I got married than I am now and you were I think you were close to your highest no it was about 235 when you got married on you so but anyway she didn't have that support system and I couldn't that I know today if we could like rewind the clock I would have never allowed her to gain or like I just would be such a better online mileage my I would be all over her like just like you're right now doing what I'm doing with my dad I would have done to her and you know it's like it's it's to the point where it's you have to do what works then and time really is a factor she was in your 50s when
